Children & Teen Therapist Referrals
and Parenting Support
Looking for a therapist for your child or teenager in California, the Santa Ynez Valley or Santa Barbara area? Here is a list of local therapists to choose from. While I do refer out for kids and teens, as a parent, I am very passionate about parent support. If you are seeking parenting or relationship support please reach out to me today! Text (805) 694-8297 or email me directly.
Parenting Support
Boundary Setting
Learn how to support your kids emotions while setting age-appropriate boundaries to help them grow into health adults in the future.
Divorce/Co-parenting
Whether you are in the middle of a divorce of navigating the aftermath of one, I can help you or you and your former partner improve your co-parenting to better support your children and reduce stress.
Resources
No matter the topic, I can help you find resources to support you in problem solving or finding support.
Military Life
As a former USMC wife, I know the challenges of living on (and off) base, navigating the military lifestyle and keeping our family connected through distance.
Reducing Conflict
Learn communication and regulation skills to help your kids navigate conflict or help you navigate conflict with your children.; even if they are now grown adults!
Education
Need help navigating the educational system or advocating for your chlid with your school? Let's talk!
Reducing Anxiety
Do you have a very anxious or sensitive child? Let me help you help them. I can teach you how to support a child, teenager or partner with intense anxiety.
Disconnection
Is your teen responding in one word answers? Do you feel you've lost the connection with your children (of any age)? I can help you explore new perspectives and communication approaches to mend distant relationships.
ADHD & AuDHD Support
I take a neurodivergent-affirming approach to parenting neurodivergent children. As an ADHD parent of neurodivergent kids, I am passionate about affirming support for you and your kids!
Chronic Illness
Not only do I specialize in chronic illness and pain for adults, I can also support you in supporting your chronically ill child.
Grief & Loss
Did your family recently lose a loved one (human or pet)? I offer grief counseling for you and guidance in how to support your children and loved ones who are also grieving. (I also specialize in suicide loss.)
Drugs, Sex & Everything in between
Are you struggling to navigate topics like sex, drugs, drinking and more with your teenage or adult chld? Let's talk!
Referrals
Santa Ynez Valley Children & Teen Therapist Referrals
Here is a list of a few therapists you can reach out to for supporting your child or teen in the Santa Ynez Valley area and/or online for virtual therapy. Please note, referrals do not mean I can vouch for each therapist. I am always happy to provide suggestions if I have enough information to try and match clients to a therapist based on specialties, demographics or personality. As always, I recommend interviewing a few therapists until you find the best fit for you. For a list of therapists in the Santa Barbara area (and online), please scroll below. You can also find more resources via Youthwell by visiting their Resource Directory.
Nathan Seaford, AMFT
Nathan sees children and teens ages 10 and up (and their families) who are dealing with a wide range of challenges, including ADHD, school refusal, self-harm, depression, anxiety, identity exploration, parent-child communication breakdown, and divorce. In-person in Los Olivos and Santa Barbara or online. Accepts Cencal, HealthNet, and Aetna insurances and private pay.
Trish Hecker, AMFT
Trish sees children and teens 9 years and older. She accepts some insurances (please inquire with her directly).
Erin Pollaro, LMFT
Erin sees children and teens ages 12 and up in Solvang, Santa Barbara and online. Private pay with superbills available.
Hopi Hall, LMFT
Felicia Carrol, LMFT
Felicia sees children and teens of all ages.
Santa Barbara & Virtual Children & Teen Therapist Referrals
Here is a list of a few therapists you can reach out to for supporting your child or teen in the Santa Barbara area and/or online for virtual therapy. Please note, referrals do not mean I can vouch for each therapist. I am always happy to provide suggestions if I have enough information to try and match clients to a therapist based on specialties, demographics or personality. As always, I recommend interviewing a few therapists until you find the best fit for you. You can also find more resources via Youthwell by visiting their Resource Directory.
Alexandra Goodman, LMFT
Alex sees teens (12+) in Santa Barbara or online. Private pay only and can provide superbills.
Danielle Sharkey, AMFT
Danielle sees teens (12+) in Santa Barbara or online. Private pay only and can provide superbills.
Sierra Valdez, AMFT
Sierra sees children and teens with a special focus on anxiety.
Shelby Swanson, LMFT
Shelby sees teenagers 14 years and older and is experienced navigating anxiety, phase of life issues, substance use, and addressing family conflict. She can see clients in Santa Barbara, Santa Maria or online. Shelby accepts some insurances (please inquire directly with her).
Lani Votaw, LMFT
Lani sees children and teens ages 3 and older in Santa Barbara. She accepts all forms of insurance.
Riley Ellis, LMFT
Riley sees kids and teens in Santa Barbara or via telehealth. Home-based therapy services are also available. She is private pay only and offers superbills.
Shannon Fennell, AMFT
Shannon sees kids and teens (5+) in Santa Barbara or online. Private pay only and can provide superbills.
Kara Petersen, LMFT
Kara sees kids and teens (5+) in Carpinteria or online. Private pay only and can provide superbills.
Darlene Meza, AMFT
Darlene sees children ages 5–12 via telehealth. Her specialties include anxiety, depression, identity, and relationship concerns. Accepts most major insurances (Aetna, Anthem, Blue Shield, UnitedHealthcare, Cigna, Medi-Cal plans, and more) as well as private pay.
Kids and teens. Santa Barbara or online. In network with: Aetna, Optum, Blue Shield Magellan, Anthem, and CenCal.
Hugh Cook, LMFT
Hugh sees children, teens and adults in Santa Barbara or via telehealth. Accepts Cencal, and Aetna insurances as well as private pay.
Amanda Muñoz, LMFT
Amanda sees kids and teens in Santa Barbara or via telehealth. Accepts Cencal insurance and private pay.